This TED talk from 2009 has been viewed over 11 million times and is ranked among the top 20 most viewed TED talks of all time.
It is a powerful reminder that the underrepresentation of cultural differences may be dangerous.
Dangerous? Indeed so.
In this talk, Adiche explains that as a young child, she had often read American and British stories, where the characters were primarily Caucasian.
Now, I loved those American and British books I read. They stirred my imagination. They opened up new worlds for me. But the unintended consequence was that I did not know that people like me could exist in literature.”
Listening, empathy and truly understanding the “other” as a nuanced person with perspectives, memories, dreams, loves and fears, is the heart and soul of true relationships.
When we listen to the stories of those who are unlike us, we can enter into true relationship with them.
Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie is a Nigerian born author who is an alumnus of Yale, Princeton and Harvard.
A strong theme of Bear Skin is how narrative both reflects the world and shapes it. Story is educative, story asserts a view, story informs and we viewers and readers engage, and re-tell and become.
Deeply truthful stories are vital to good and strong society. This wonderful TED talk by Christopher Bell sums up the importance of this fact by addressing the place of strong female role models in narrative, not only for little girls, but also for little boys.
But here’s the question that I have to ask.Why is it that when my daughter dresses up,whether it’s Groot or The Incredible Hulk,whether it’s Obi-Wan Kenobi or Darth Maul,why is every character she dresses up as a boy?And where are all the female superheroes?And that is not actually the question,because there’s plenty of female superheroes.My question really is, where is all the female superhero stuff?Where are the costumes? Where are the toys?
Because every day when my daughter plays when she dresses up,she’s learning stuffthrough a process that, in my own line of work,as a professor of media studies,we refer to as public pedagogy.That is, it is how societies are taught ideologies.It’s how you learned what it meant to be a man or a woman,what it meant to behave yourself in public,what it meant to be a patriot and have good manners.It’s all the constituent social relations that make us up as a people.It’s, in short, how we learn what we know about other peopleand about the world.
Imagine that you invented a devicethat can record my memories,my dreams, my ideas,and transmit them to your brain.That would be a game-changing technology, right?But in fact, we already possess this device,and it’s called human communication systemand effective storytelling.To understand how this device works,we have to look into our brains.
This awesome TED Talk by Uri Hasson illustrates the power of “neural-entrainment” a process of creating synchronicity between brainwaves among groups of people, by simply telling a story.
Hasson shows how story telling creates shared feeling and shared thought in much the same way that metronomes will syncronise their rhythms when sharing a vibrating base.
Such synchronicity is powerful and dangerous as it illustrates how bias can easily be transmitted among groups. However, the onus is on us to consider what stories we absorb, and what stories we share. We should continue to share stories and ideas freely, since together we are more powerful than we are alone.
Any one who loves TED talks will love this article, featured in Business Insider on March 30th. Written by Carmine Gallo, its main point is:
If you want to “connect” with another person, tell more stories.
Harvard professor Amy Cuddy thought she had made a mistake.
In 2012 Cuddy, stepped on a TED stage to deliver a presentation on how body posture influences behavior. In addition to the data, she shared a deeply personal story of how she fought her own battle with “imposter syndrome” early in her career.
The story was unplanned and unscripted. Cuddy’s “mistake” turned out be lucrative, as the video went viral and sparked a New York Times bestseller, “Presence.”
Sharing a personal story changed Cuddy’s life, and it could change yours, too.
“What sets TED talks apart is that the big ideas are wrapped in personal stories,” Charlie Rose once said on the CBS news program 60 Minutes. Rose nailed it.
When a speaker is invited to take the TED stage, they’re sent a stone tablet engraved with TED Commandments. Among the most important commandment of all:
“Thou shalt tell a story.”
In my analysis of 500 TED talks (150 hours) and interviews with some of the most popular TED speakers, a clear pattern emerges. TED talks that go viral are made up of:
65% personal stories
25% data, facts and figures
10% resume builders to reinforce speaker credibility
Duke professor Dan Ariely’s TED talks have been viewed 12 million times. Ariely often shares the tragic story of when he was involved in an accident as a teenager — an accident that left him burned over 70% of his body.
In the hospital, it took about an hour for the nurses to rip off his bandages to re-apply new ones. “As you can imagine, I hated that moment of ripping with incredible intensity. And I would try to reason with them and say, ‘Why don’t we try something else? Why don’t we take it a little longer — maybe two hours instead of an hour — and have less of this intensity?'”
The nurses assumed they knew better than the patient. They didn’t. The experience led Ariely to study behavioral economics and to write the bestselling book “Predictably Irrational.” Today, Ariely’s compelling personal story has made him a sought-after advisor to governments and organizations around the world.
Facebook COO Sheryl Sandberg is learning about the power of personal story. Sandberg’s TEDx talk on “Why We Have Too Few Women Leaders” has been viewed more than 6 million times and launched the Lean In movement. Personal stories make up 72% of Sandberg’s now-famous presentation. Remarkably, Sandberg wasn’t going to tell a story at all.
While preparing for the presentation on women in the workplace, Sandberg did what came naturally. The former management consultant amassed mountains of statistics on things like how many heads of state are women and how many women make up the C-suite in corporate America.
Just before she took the stage, Sandberg found herself unable to focus on the speech. She confided to her friend Pat that she was troubled about something that had happened before boarding the plane for the conference. Her 3-year-old daughter, upset at the fact that her mother was leaving, clung to her leg, pleading, “Mommy, don’t go.”
Pat suggested to Sandberg that she should share the story with the mostly female audience. “Are you kidding?” she responded. “I’m going to get on a stage and admit my daughter was clinging to my leg?” Sandberg eventually took her friend’s advice and opened the presentation with a deeply personal story revealing the challenges she faced as a working mother.
If it hadn’t been for a personal story, we probably never would have heard of “Lean In.”
By accident, Sandberg had discovered what neuroscientists are discovering in the lab:
Stories alter brain chemistry that in turn triggers empathy in your audience. When the brain hears a compelling personal story, it triggers a rush of chemicals including dopamine, cortisol and oxytocin, the ‘love molecule’ that makes us feel empathy for another person.
At Princeton University, researcher Uri Hasson has discovered that when one person tells another person a story, the same regions of their brains light up on fMRI scans. He calls it “neural coupling,” which simply means
the two people are having a brain sync.
No other tool of persuasion has the same effect as a personal story. If you want to “connect” with another person, tell more stories. It’s a commandment worth following in every pitch and presentation.
This wonderful TEDxSeoul talk [yes it’s got subtitles] reminds us of how we can over-complicate and overthink creativity.
Every child is born an artist and does not think to create for payment or accolade. We never lose this creativity but we learn to listen to the devils of doubt who would question “why” or “what for?”
But art is not for anything.Art is the ultimate goal.It saves our souls and makes us live happily.It helps us express ourselves and be happy without the help of alcohol or drugs.
[Transcript]: The theme of my talk today is,“Be an artist, right now.”Most people, when this subject is brought up,get tense and resist it:“Art doesn’t feed me, and right now I’m busy.I have to go to school, get a job,send my kids to lessons … “You think, “I’m too busy. I don’t have time for art.”There are hundreds of reasons why we can’t be artists right now.Don’t they just pop into your head?
00:39 There are so many reasons why we can’t be,indeed, we’re not sure why we should be.We don’t know why we should be artists,but we have many reasons why we can’t be.Why do people instantly resist the idea of associating themselves with art?Perhaps you think art is for the greatly giftedor for the thoroughly and professionally trained.And some of you may think you’ve strayed too far from art.Well you might have, but I don’t think so.This is the theme of my talk today.We are all born artists.
01:16 If you have kids, you know what I mean.Almost everything kids do is art.They draw with crayons on the wall.They dance to Son Dam Bi’s dance on TV,but you can’t even call it Son Dam Bi’s dance — it becomes the kids’ own dance.So they dance a strange dance and inflict their singing on everyone.Perhaps their art is something only their parents can bear,and because they practice such art all day long,people honestly get a little tired around kids.
01:51 Kids will sometimes perform monodramas —playing house is indeed a monodrama or a play.And some kids, when they get a bit older,start to lie.Usually parents remember the very first time their kid lies.They’re shocked.“Now you’re showing your true colors,” Mom says. She thinks, “Why does he take after his dad?”She questions him, “What kind of a person are you going to be?”
02:16 But you shouldn’t worry.The moment kids start to lie is the moment storytelling begins.They are talking about things they didn’t see.It’s amazing. It’s a wonderful moment.Parents should celebrate.“Hurray! My boy finally started to lie!”All right! It calls for celebration.For example, a kid says, “Mom, guess what? I met an alien on my way home.”Then a typical mom responds, “Stop that nonsense.”Now, an ideal parent is someone who responds like this:“Really? An alien, huh? What did it look like? Did it say anything?Where did you meet it?” “Um, in front of the supermarket.”
02:52 When you have a conversation like this,the kid has to come up with the next thing to say to be responsible for what he started.Soon, a story develops.Of course this is an infantile story,but thinking up one sentence after the nextis the same thing a professional writer like me does.In essence, they are not different.Roland Barthes once said of Flaubert’s novels,“Flaubert did not write a novel.He merely connected one sentence after another.The eros between sentences, that is the essence of Flaubert’s novel.”That’s right — a novel, basically, is writing one sentence,then, without violating the scope of the first one,writing the next sentence.And you continue to make connections.
03:40 Take a look at this sentence:“One morning, as Gregor Samsa was waking up from anxious dreams, he discovered that in his bed he had been changed into a monstrous verminous bug.”Yes, it’s the first sentence of Franz Kafka’s “The Metamorphosis.”Writing such an unjustifiable sentenceand continuing in order to justify it,Kafka’s work became the masterpiece of contemporary literature.Kafka did not show his work to his father.He was not on good terms with his father.On his own, he wrote these sentences.Had he shown his father, “My boy has finally lost it,” he would’ve thought.
04:10 And that’s right. Art is about going a little nutsand justifying the next sentence,which is not much different from what a kid does.A kid who has just started to lieis taking the first step as a storyteller.Kids do art.They don’t get tired and they have fun doing it.I was in Jeju Island a few days ago.When kids are on the beach, most of them love playing in the water.But some of them spend a lot of time in the sand,making mountains and seas — well, not seas,but different things — people and dogs, etc.But parents tell them,“It will all be washed away by the waves.”In other words, it’s useless.There’s no need.But kids don’t mind.They have fun in the momentand they keep playing in the sand.Kids don’t do it because someone told them to.They aren’t told by their bossor anyone, they just do it.
05:00 When you were little, I bet you spent time enjoying the pleasure of primitive art.When I ask my students to write about their happiest moment,many write about an early artistic experience they had as a kid.Learning to play piano for the first time and playing four hands with a friend,or performing a ridiculous skit with friends looking like idiots — things like that.Or the moment you developed the first film you shot with an old camera.They talk about these kinds of experiences.You must have had such a moment.In that moment, art makes you happybecause it’s not work.Work doesn’t make you happy, does it? Mostly it’s tough.
05:37 The French writer Michel Tournier has a famous saying.It’s a bit mischievous, actually.“Work is against human nature. The proof is that it makes us tired.”Right? Why would work tire us if it’s in our nature?Playing doesn’t tire us.We can play all night long.If we work overnight, we should be paid for overtime.Why? Because it’s tiring and we feel fatigue.But kids, usually they do art for fun. It’s playing.They don’t draw to sell the work to a clientor play the piano to earn money for the family.Of course, there were kids who had to.You know this gentleman, right?He had to tour around Europe to support his family —Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart —but that was centuries ago, so we can make him an exception.Unfortunately, at some point our art — such a joyful pastime — ends.Kids have to go to lessons, to school, do homeworkand of course they take piano or ballet lessons,but they aren’t fun anymore.You’re told to do it and there’s competition. How can it be fun?If you’re in elementary school and you still draw on the wall,you’ll surely get in trouble with your mom.Besides,if you continue to act like an artist as you get older,you’ll increasingly feel pressure —people will question your actions and ask you to act properly.
07:02 Here’s my story: I was an eighth grader and I entered a drawing contest at school in Gyeongbokgung.I was trying my best, and my teacher came aroundand asked me, “What are you doing?”“I’m drawing diligently,” I said.“Why are you using only black?”Indeed, I was eagerly coloring the sketchbook in black.And I explained,“It’s a dark night and a crow is perching on a branch.”Then my teacher said,“Really? Well, Young-ha, you may not be good at drawing but you have a talent for storytelling.”Or so I wished.“Now you’ll get it, you rascal!” was the response. (Laughter)“You’ll get it!” he said.You were supposed to draw the palace, the Gyeonghoeru, etc.,but I was coloring everything in black,so he dragged me out of the group.There were a lot of girls there as well,so I was utterly mortified.
07:51 None of my explanations or excuses were heard,and I really got it big time.If he was an ideal teacher, he would have responded like I said before,“Young-ha may not have a talent for drawing,but he has a gift for making up stories,” and he would have encouraged me.But such a teacher is seldom found.Later, I grew up and went to Europe’s galleries —I was a university student — and I thought this was really unfair.Look what I found. (Laughter)
08:23 Works like this were hung in Basel while I was punishedand stood in front of the palace with my drawing in my mouth.Look at this. Doesn’t it look just like wallpaper?Contemporary art, I later discovered, isn’t explained by a lame story like mine.No crows are brought up.Most of the works have no title, Untitled.Anyways, contemporary art in the 20th centuryis about doing something weird and filling the void with explanation and interpretation —essentially the same as I did.Of course, my work was very amateur,but let’s turn to more famous examples.
09:01 This is Picasso’s.He stuck handlebars into a bike seat and called it “Bull’s Head.” Sounds convincing, right?Next, a urinal was placed on its side and called “Fountain”.That was Duchamp.So filling the gap between explanation and a weird act with stories —that’s indeed what contemporary art is all about.Picasso even made the statement,“I draw not what I see but what I think.”Yes, it means I didn’t have to draw Gyeonghoeru.I wish I knew what Picasso said back then. I could have argued better with my teacher.Unfortunately, the little artists within usare choked to death before we get to fight against the oppressors of art.They get locked in.That’s our tragedy.
09:48 So what happens when little artists get locked in, banished or even killed?Our artistic desire doesn’t go away.We want to express, to reveal ourselves,but with the artist dead, the artistic desire reveals itself in dark form.In karaoke bars, there are always people who sing“She’s Gone” or “Hotel California,”miming the guitar riffs.Usually they sound awful. Awful indeed.Some people turn into rockers like this.Or some people dance in clubs.People who would have enjoyed telling storiesend up trolling on the Internet all night long.That’s how a writing talent reveals itself on the dark side.
10:27 Sometimes we see dads get more excited than their kidsplaying with Legos or putting together plastic robots.They go, “Don’t touch it. Daddy will do it for you.”The kid has already lost interest and is doing something else,but the dad alone builds castles.This shows the artistic impulses inside us are suppressed, not gone.But they can often reveal themselves negatively, in the form of jealousy.You know the song “I would love to be on TV”? Why would we love it?TV is full of people who do what we wished to do,but never got to.They dance, they act — and the more they do, they are praised.So we start to envy them.We become dictators with a remote and start to criticize the people on TV.“He just can’t act.” “You call that singing? She can’t hit the notes.”We easily say these sorts of things.We get jealous, not because we’re evil,but because we have little artists pent up inside us.That’s what I think.
11:34 What should we do then?Yes, that’s right.Right now, we need to start our own art.Right this minute, we can turn off TV,log off the Internet,get up and start to do something.Where I teach students in drama school,there’s a course called Dramatics.In this course, all students must put on a play.However, acting majors are not supposed to act.They can write the play, for example,and the writers may work on stage art.Likewise, stage art majors may become actors, and in this way you put on a show.Students at first wonder whether they can actually do it,but later they have so much fun. I rarely see anyone who is miserable doing a play.In school, the military or even in a mental institution, once you make people do it, they enjoy it.I saw this happen in the army — many people had fun doing plays.
12:23 I have another experience:In my writing class, I give students a special assignment.I have students like you in the class — many who don’t major in writing.Some major in art or music and think they can’t write.So I give them blank sheets of paper and a theme.It can be a simple theme:Write about the most unfortunate experience in your childhood.There’s one condition: You must write like crazy. Like crazy!I walk around and encourage them,“Come on, come on!” They have to write like crazy for an hour or two.They only get to think for the first five minutes.
13:01 The reason I make them write like crazy is becausewhen you write slowly and lots of thoughts cross your mind,the artistic devil creeps in.This devil will tell you hundreds of reasonswhy you can’t write:“People will laugh at you. This is not good writing!What kind of sentence is this? Look at your handwriting!”It will say a lot of things.You have to run fast so the devil can’t catch up.The really good writing I’ve seen in my classwas not from the assignments with a long deadline,but from the 40- to 60-minute crazy writing students didin front of me with a pencil.The students go into a kind of trance.After 30 or 40 minutes, they write without knowing what they’re writing.And in this moment, the nagging devil disappears.
13:48 So I can say this:It’s not the hundreds of reasons why one can’t be an artist,but rather, the one reason one must be that makes us artists.Why we cannot be something is not important.Most artists became artists because of the one reason.When we put the devil in our heart to sleep and start our own art,enemies appear on the outside.Mostly, they have the faces of our parents. (Laughter)Sometimes they look like our spouses,but they are not your parents or spouses.They are devils. Devils.They came to Earth briefly transformedto stop you from being artistic, from becoming artists.And they have a magic question.When we say, “I think I’ll try acting. There’s a drama school in the community center,” or“I’d like to learn Italian songs,” they ask, “Oh, yeah? A play? What for?”The magic question is, “What for?”But art is not for anything.Art is the ultimate goal.It saves our souls and makes us live happily.It helps us express ourselves and be happy without the help of alcohol or drugs.So in response to such a pragmatic question,we need to be bold.“Well, just for the fun of it. Sorry for having fun without you,”is what you should say. “I’ll just go ahead and do it anyway.”The ideal future I imagine is where we all have multiple identities,at least one of which is an artist.
15:21 Once I was in New York and got in a cab. I took the backseat,and in front of me I saw something related to a play.So I asked the driver, “What is this?”He said it was his profile. “Then what are you?” I asked. “An actor,” he said.He was a cabby and an actor. I asked, “What roles do you usually play?”He proudly said he played King Lear.King Lear.“Who is it that can tell me who I am?” — a great line from King Lear.That’s the world I dream of.Someone is a golfer by day and writer by night.Or a cabby and an actor, a banker and a painter,secretly or publicly performing their own arts.
15:58 In 1990, Martha Graham, the legend of modern dance, came to Korea.The great artist, then in her 90s, arrived at Gimpo Airportand a reporter asked her a typical question:“What do you have to do to become a great dancer?Any advice for aspiring Korean dancers?”Now, she was the master. This photo was taken in 1948 and she was already a celebrated artist.In 1990, she was asked this question.And here’s what she answered:“Just do it.”Wow. I was touched.Only those three words and she left the airport. That’s it.So what should we do now?Let’s be artists, right now. Right away. How?Just do it!
Various metaphors are used for artistic inspiration and expression.
An apocryphal quote attributed to Michaelangelo, sculptor of the statue ‘David,’ is retold like this. When asked how he came up with his masterpiece, Michaelangelo simply replied:
You just chip away the stone that doesn’t look like David.
The artist’s perception is that there is something in the stone that he, the craftsman must simply discover. This renaissance thought had much in common with classical ideas of inspiration.
Ancient poets and playwrights described the source of their inspiration as a divine ‘muse’ or a goddess responsible for arts and knowledge. This muse could be capricious, visiting the artist somewhat whimsically and contributing to great floods of inspiration or terrible creative blocks.
Elizabeth Wilson, author of “Eat, Pray, Love” in her great TED talk discusses the merits of modern artists rediscovering the ancient notion of a muse.
Other artists refer to their work as “children”, conceived in the brain and growing until they cannot but be birthed with great labour pains. Another writer once described his ideas like little puppies, following at his heels and tripping him up until taken out for a run.
Whichever way one considers inspiration, expression remains the same. Artistic expression is “work”. Whether the sculptor discovering the “David” within the marble, or the poet transcribing lyrics delivered by a muse, or an artist gestating ideas and bringing them forth with great labour pains, as birthing a child, the common theme is clear.
Inspiration is often a gift received, while creative expressions is a gift given.
This TED talk by Dave Isay is about his project Story Corps. In booths around America, the Story Corps has captured interviews and stories of everyday people since 2003 with the goal and aim to become a
digital archive of the collective wisdom of humanity.
In March 2015, he won the coveted TED Prize declaring his goal is to take the project globally.
This blog often questions “What makes a good story?” and “Why can some stories absolutely entrance, bewtich and transform us?”
How can human-made squiggles on a page, reflect lights into our eyes, that sends signals to our brains, that we logically and emotionally decode as complex narratives, that move us to fight, cry, sing and think, that are strong enough to hold up a world that is completely invented by the author, but also to change the readers perspective on the real world that resumes only when the final squiggle is reached ?
This short video explains how writers weave their magic. Writers can paint fantastical fictional worlds with intricate rules, maps, lineages, languages, cultures, universes, alternate universes within universes.
The key is believability. If your characters understand their world and its rules your readers will – and will inhabit it with them. Taking the fictional world utterly seriously is the first step to architecting the narrative that follows.
The truth is your imagination and a willingness to figuratively live in your own world are all you need to get started writing a novel.
Cristina Domenech gave this amazing TED talk in October 2014. She teaches writing at an Argentinian prison, and tells the moving story of helping incarcerated people express themselves and understand themselves through poetry.
“It’s said that to be a poet, you have to go to hell and back.”
Cristina’s moving tale is about finding freedeom whatever our circumstances.
“All of us in our hell burn with happinesswhen we light the wick of the word”.